Friday January 10, 2008

So I was a little worried about taking a marriage prep class...yes I am at BYU marriage central of the United States...and not engaged!!! But actually the class is really interesting. Man I am only 18 and yet people all around me are trying to push me into something that I am not sure that I am ready for. Thus I am one of many students that is taking a marriage prep class. In this class I'm learning about how important the relationship between the Husband and Wife is. It is important that I find the right person to adventually marry. After all marriage is the most important decision that I will make in my life, and I want to make sure that I marry the right person. My professor said something that really hit me. He said "If we do not define what we believe, others will define what we believe." I believe this, we live in a world where people will tell us what we believe, and don't really. How do they know what I believe? They are my beliefs not theirs. We don't have the right to tell people what they should believe and what they should not. I should not listen to what others say that I believe. I am going to decide when I am ready to date someone seriously and to finally get married and settle down...there are so many girls in this world that don't think that family is important. I BELIEVE that family is the most important thing in my life!!! I want to be able to find that right guy and settle down and have a family of my own.